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Five Tips on How to Lead a More Adventurous Life

Article By: OpenRoadRider

Humans are, by nature, explorers. We like to see stuff. We like to go places. Adventure is in our blood.

But, as we get older, our sense of adventure gets muted by jobs, family, and other responsibilities that we all face as adults. Too many things pull us in too many different ways.

And, that's a shame.

Before you know it, you're looking back over the years of your life and counting your most exciting memories on one hand. Everything else simply blurs into a time span of nothing more than existence.

We all started out as the greatest of adventurers - as children. Everything was new, all we wanted to do was explore. It didn't matter if it was the woods in the back, or that cupboard that mom locked up and won't let us into.

For those of you with kids, you know what I'm talking about. Remember when they first started to crawl? They went and looked at everything, and everything was exciting. You couldn't get them to sit still no matter what.

Then, we got older and we were taught it was necessary to plan. Make sure you have every "I" dotted and "t" crossed. Otherwise, bad things will happen, you won't finish school, you won't get a job... and the flame of adventure got a little weaker.

Then, we got even a little older (yes, it does happen), and we were taught it was critical to plan. Plan for retirement, plan for the kids, plan for your next vacation. Otherwise, bad things will happen, you won't retire, your vacation will be boring... and the flame of adventure got a little weaker still.

You get the picture.

Life isn't about being safe and comfortable - it's about living, being adventuresome, getting out of our comfort zones. It's about being a kid again.

If you've ever had a bit of wanderlust, or sat in your cubicle and daydreamed of a different life, or experienced mid-life crises, you know what I'm talking about.

Those events are just our mind rebelling against the flame of adventure getting weaker in our soul. It's our subconscious telling us that the path of comfort and safety in our life isn't always the best thing.

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COMMENTS
Posted By: e48948 on 9/2/2011 6:04:06 AM
WOW! OpenRoadRider it's like you were able to put into words exactly what I was feeling. Great article, thank you!
Posted By: felon on 9/6/2011 8:42:00 PM
Great article & here is my response:
(1)I am a planner, but they are always written in pencil! (2)An adventure can be a ride on your circular drive way, if your naked! (3)Love being lost, best way to explore new roads. (4)Our Web Rider group is always ready to ride! Then share those memories here on ORJ!(5) Don't like being uncomfortable, like things to be simple, as I am a simple man, but occasionaly I try to go places that you shouldn't take a Harley-Davidson touring motorcycle! I guess that is me leaving the comfort zone!
Posted By: OpenRoadRider on 9/10/2011 7:51:20 AM
@Felon - Well put... and tell me where your house is so I can avoid your driveway. LOL
Posted By: Doc2nd2 on 9/13/2011 12:10:35 AM
Wonderfull piece, I ride almost daily, weather permitting,(no ice or tornadoes) and you made me excited to ride home in the morning! My friends all know I ride and, almost every weekend, go on some kind of trip somewhere. Most have learned to not ask where I am going, but rather, where I have been. See, the answer to to the first is always the same, "Where ever my front tire goes, I'll be following it!" Pick a general destination and find "the other way" to get there. You will seldome be disappointed. Just make sure to stop for gas before you need to. I meet so many new people on my rides that I would otherwise miss out on finding if I rode to the red line on the fuel guage. Seems alot of folks like to talk to the rider that just rumbled into their sleepy back woods town,"where ya from" or "where ya goin to" usually opens the dialogue. And there is the occasional Old Fella who says, with a distant gleam in his eyes who laments "I remember ridin' when I was younger...."
Take time to meet these people,turn a kind ear and word toward them. I promise you will be in their minds long after your tail light has faded into the distance and the sound of your engine is just a fond memory.
Posted By: OpenRoadRider on 9/14/2011 6:53:13 PM
@Doc2nd2 - Absolutely. Absolutely. Absolutely. You described one of the reasons why I always search for more of the less travelled route!
Posted By: blkvsn on 9/26/2011 11:31:10 PM
I always tell my wife as long as we have gas and daylight, we're not lost! Try to avoid the freeways and take the road less traveled. And the road looks different from the other direction.
Posted By: Hoof on 10/23/2011 12:45:32 PM
I just completed a 9 week 12,680 mile road trip. Some of was planned, but most had just a general direction. I would turn whenever I liked or when I saw something worth looking into. Sometimes I would be geocaching and wonder into new areas. Don't overplan your trip, alow for weather caused changes of direction, or a great road tip from someone that you meet.
Posted By: susparr915 on 12/29/2011 2:37:43 PM
Bought my first motorcycle at age 75. Have over 5000 miles on my 2010 HD trike. Planning a ride with my HOG chapter in 2012 to Arkansas. Love riding but the camaraderie with fellow riders is the best. We have become good friends and look forward to impromptu rides which have no specific destination. The trip to Arkansas will be my first long distance ride. Can't wait. Did I forget to mention I am a great-grandmother?
Posted By: roy005 on 1/2/2012 8:21:20 AM
Great article and advice. Ride the road less travelled. Explore, it's good for the soul. Ride Safe Friends!
Posted By: waynei on 1/22/2012 3:25:40 AM
Thank you all. Reading this artical and everyones input has rekindled a spark inside that I thought had gone out perminently. At 61 its time to see some of the dreams become memories. Be Safe!
Posted By: BikerMeme on 1/31/2012 9:43:15 AM
I absolutely love reading about everybody's adventures. Especially the women riders. I am 57 and took the motorcycle riding course 2 years ago. If I had known that riding was this much fun I would have done this years ago. It's in my blood....I'm sure of it. I have no sense of direction (can't follow a map)so I would have to say that every time I get on my "Ruby" the adventure begins. I usually ride with my husband. I took my 1st trip last summer from Winnipeg to Cranbrook, BC. Going through the Rockies was amazing. I kept my "Ruby" shiny side up all the way there and back. Talk about getting out of my comfort zone. It sure gave me a whole lot more confidence in my ability to ride. We are planning another trip this summer.....to Wisconsin. I'm so looking forward to it. Happy motoring and always ride safe! PS: My grandchildren think their Meme is the coolest. :)
Posted By: thatdude on 2/12/2012 10:00:11 AM
there's somethin' special about the feelin' i get when i map out a route thru unfamiliar country and find jewels along its path. keeps me wantin' to see what's over the next rise or around that next curve. nice cover photo

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